Intimacy After Trauma – Zoom Webinar

Couple on a bed, fully clothes, in a loving embrace

Tuning out? Finding it difficult to be present during intimacy? Feel as if your trauma is inhibiting your ability to bond? These feelings are common for those of us who have survived domestic violence, sexual abuse, sexual assault, and other forms trauma. Join Ducky as we explore ways of growing beyond our trauma.

In a safe and non-judgmental environment, you are invited to discuss common issues survivors face or simply listen to inspiring ideas on how you can:

  • Understand and embrace your post-trauma instinctual responses
  • Manage triggers and find more peace within yourself
  • Build trust and better communicate your needs with loved ones
  • Become more conscious in your body
  • Embrace your desires
  • Bond with your partner
  • Explore healing through touch in ways that work for you


  • Internet speed that allows for zoom
  • Optional notebook/pen for note taking

Ducky's face, with a slight smile and black hair in soft curls that reach her shouldersABOUT DUCKY:

Her mission is to help people find peace and pleasure in their bodies and relationships. She is a Certified Sex Educator, a Certified Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Counselor, and a survivor.  She is also the author of Sex with The Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered.


Sunday, Mar 6, 2022

1pm ET | 12pm CT | 11am MT | 10am PT

$49 – SOLD OUT

We will do this class again in May 2022.

This is a 1.5 hour, live zoom presentation. No camera or mic needed. This presentation is for trauma survivors, partners of trauma survivors, and professionals in the healing arts. There are 15 spots available.

Thanks to Enchantasys for sponsoring this event.

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I Found My Perfect Valentine’s Day Gifts

With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, I had the perfect excuse to pick out some sexy holiday-inspired gift for my husband. (Don’t worry, he does not read my blog! Haha!)

In the spirit of #WWDD (What would Ducky do?) these are the items I purchased so I am sure to slay him!

Beautiful fuller figured person with long dark hair and wearing a very lacy, red bra and garter set.

I adore eyelash lace. It looks so delicate and elegant. I was tickled to find this red and black underwire bra and adjustable garter set by 7 til Midnight. with beautiful eyelash lace overlays. This set is available in plus sizes and standard sizes. (I’ll probably wear it with some other set of black panties because I am not a G-string lover.)

Heart shaped box of chocolates with the words "I Fucking Love You" printed in script on the top.

I also picked out this “I Fucking Love You” box of chocolates because its scientifically proven that people who use profanity are passionate. And I am very passionate!

Now you know what I’ll be wearing, but there is a plump Valentine’s Gift Guide on the Enchantasys site for you to explore.

Get 10% off your whole order at Enchantasys! Use code: DUCKY