About Me

Author | Speaker | Pleasure Seeker

Kind words about my work…

“She’s one of the most insightful and original sex educators and artists I’ve ever met.”-Susie Bright

“One of the funniest, most surprising, and most caring public sexual experiences you can have. She gives to-the-point sex advice and guidance with humor and compassion.” –Cory Silverberg

“One of the most thought-provoking and interesting sex teachers out there.” –Carol Queen

Official bio….

Ducky is a Certified Sex Educator, a foremost expert in the pleasure product/sex toy industry, and a former Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Counselor. She brings a warm, nonjudgmental, whole body/whole life, and often hilarious approach to sexual pleasure & wellness. She is also the author of Sex with the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered.

She has presented at countless universities, trained medical students on how to address sexual issues with care and compassion, and has been the keynote speaker for professional sexuality and social work conferences across North America.

Her youtube videos have attracted millions of views. She has been instrumental in building public sex education learning programs for the Museum of Sex in New York City, the Academy of Sex Education and adult retailers like Babeland. As a writer, she has been awarded a fellowship with the New York Foundation for the Arts in the category of non-fiction literature.

Ducky has been featured with Playboy, The New York Times, The History of Sex on the History Channel, NPR, HBO, MTV, NPR, Vice, ABC News, and MSNBC, to name a few.

She is a proud partner in Enchantasys.com, Enchantasys in Conway, AR, and Condom Sense in Fayetteville, AR. Ducky is also a cancer survivor, married to a USMC combat veteran,  collects tiny objects and unruly animals for fun.

Some appearances…