Your questions are important to me. Due to the demand, I have a few ways to help you get answers when you need them...
1) Need an answer now? If it's urgent, call me.
I use a service called Ingenio. When this buttons says "call me" you will actually be connected directly to me by phone. It's a competely confidential way to ask me anything. I won't even know your name. This is a pay service, but this way I can prioritize your needs and get you what you need right now. If the button says "busy" it means I'm on with another caller. You can wait for the line to open up or send an email and we can set a time for a call that works for both of us. This is my direct line: 1-888-464-3646, extention 02483477

2) Need an answer now? You can also email me.
Again, I use Ingenio for urgent email questions. It's a competely private way to ask me anything and get your question quickly. It is a pay service, but this way I can prioritize your needs and get you what you need right away. Email coaching/advice costs $20 per (500 or less word) exchange.

3) If it's not urgent, look up your issue here.
I may have already answered your question in my book or in my blog. This is a comprehensive list of all of the questions I have answered in my blog or in my book.
4) Are you are just curious and/or do not need an immediate response?
Click here and ask your question for free. Due to demand, it may take me a little while to answer. Your answer will be posted on my Ask Ducky blog. I will always protect your identity when I post your answer and I will send you a note so you know when your question has been answered. Sending your question to me through my blog makes it possible for lots of people to benefit from your question. Thank you!
Why do I do this?
I honestly believe people are far too isolated when it comes to speaking and learning about sex. I'm here, with an open, non-judgmental mind to give you a space to ask honest questions. I am a sex positive, open minded advisor with 20 years experience in the field sexuality. I work with individuals and couples on communication, relationship, sexuality and lifestyle curiosities, concerns and challenges. Call on me to talk about your desires, sexuality, STDs, surviving sexual or domestic violence, body images issues like penis size or ED, orgasm techniques, fetishes, the G spot, finding the right adult toys for your body, how to introduce new sexual ideas to your mate, and other sexuality and relationship related questions. Individuals of every gender and orientation welcomed.